What We Left Behind

What We Left Behind

What We Left Behind From the critically acclaimed author of Lies We Tell Ourselves comes an emotional empowering story of what happens when love may not be enough to conquer all Toni and Gretchen are the couple everyone

  • Title: What We Left Behind
  • Author: Robin Talley
  • ISBN: 9780373211753
  • Page: 404
  • Format: Hardcover
  • From the critically acclaimed author of Lies We Tell Ourselves comes an emotional, empowering story of what happens when love may not be enough to conquer all.Toni and Gretchen are the couple everyone envied in high school They ve been together forever They never fight They re deeply, hopelessly in love When they separate for their first year at college Toni to HarvardFrom the critically acclaimed author of Lies We Tell Ourselves comes an emotional, empowering story of what happens when love may not be enough to conquer all.Toni and Gretchen are the couple everyone envied in high school They ve been together forever They never fight They re deeply, hopelessly in love When they separate for their first year at college Toni to Harvard and Gretchen to NYU they re sure they ll be fine Where other long distance relationships have fallen apart, theirs is bound to stay rock solid.The reality of being apart, though, is very different than they expected Toni, who identifies as genderqueer, meets a group of transgender upperclassmen and immediately finds a sense of belonging that has always been missing, but Gretchen struggles to remember who she is outside their relationship.While Toni worries that Gretchen won t understand Toni s new world, Gretchen begins to wonder where she fits in Toni s life As distance and Toni s shifting gender identity begins to wear on their relationship, the couple must decide have they grown apart for good, or is love enough to keep them together

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    This might be my most disappointing read of 2015. I have been so excited for this book. There are so few books out there about people who identify as genderqueer that I couldn't wait for this book to be available. But it did so many things wrong.Firstly, I knew early on that this wasn't going to get more than three stars. It read like a textbook or essay discussing and informing the reader about being transgender and being genderqueer. The story itself - about Toni and Gretchen's relationship - [...]

    I read the ARC of this book, and I'm really disappointed in it. I think I would've liked it, except . . .The genderqueer representation is not good at all. First, (I'm going to refer to the genderqueer character only as T through this review so as not to spoil things) T does the WORST thing that reinforces the WORST stereotype about genderqueer people. T acts like a hipster "babydyke" (another character's word, not mine) and goes around calling everyone by gender neutral pronouns, until the very [...]

    I don't really know where to start with this review. All I really know is I was SO excited to read this. There is so little representation of people who identify as genderqueer and I couldn't wait to get my hands on it, but I ended up so incredibly disappointed.Also to note, for the purposes of this review, I will referring to Toni as'T' as to not spoil anything.To start with, the writing felt forced and read like a collection of short essays or even a textbook, and there was barely any resembla [...]

    This is not positive representation of what it means to be genderqueer. If you were attracted to this book in part because Toni is genderqueer, What We Left Behind will only leave you disappointed and enraged because it is used interchangably with being trans and generally treated as a transitional stage or a place you are when you aren't certain, not as its own gender identity. Repeatedly, characters use the wrong pronouns for someone, get corrected, and continue to use the wrong pronouns anywa [...]

    After having time to think about the book the more and more I grew more irritated. Robin Talley has great writing and Toni and Gretchen were great characters, however, she definitely missed a few important points on what it is to be Genderqueer. I was so wrapped up in this whirlwind story that I wasn't paying so much attention to the details until after I read it.

    This book will contain spoilers, and quotes from the book.When a book opened up with a relatable litany such as these:You’re bound to think, “Oh, hell yes. This shit might be good.” It better be good.However, What We Left Behind drastically failed in every standard that I was highly holding itself into. There are a lot of offensive and alarming situations that made my skin crawled.There is a prominent character in the story, named Caroll. He is gay, and he keeps using transphobic and lespo [...]

    I agree with this review in every respect. Still, I will try to elaborate on my thoughts.This book is problematic in more ways than I can describe. Do NOT look to this book to educate you on the trans spectrum or the queer community in general. This is not good queer representation, even worse genderqueer "representation" (if it can even rightfully be called that), and I would encourage you to avoid it at all costs. This is Glee in novel form; it wants to be a catchall for ALL THE CHARACTERS, al [...]

    Another YA book by the fabulous Robin Talley and it's involving not only homosexuality but transsexuality?

    Review to comeOkay. I've been looking forward to this review, mainly because I have a lot to say. So lately I've been reading a lot of LGBTQ to broaden my horizons. Unfortunately, I haven't liked many of the books in that genre. This book was one of those books.Plot: So this book was about a lesbian couple who basically have their entire lives planned out: together. The two girls names are Gretchen and Toni. Toni is struggling to find out who she is, and identifying as genderqueer, because she d [...]

    I received this free from the publishers via NetgalleyAll quotes are from my arc edition and may be subject to changeToni and Gretchen are the perfect couple. They never fight and are expected to be together forever. But then college comes along, Gretchen to NYU and Toni to Harvard and they are sure they'll be ok. However, the distance does put a toll on their relationship. Toni is genderqueer and when T finds a sense of belonging with a group transgender upperclassman, Gretchen struggles to fin [...]

    Hm. Hm. Mixed feelings about this one, enough that I'm not really sure how to rate it at all. My first impression was: holy shit, we have come a LONG way since I was a teen! A non-binary character who's on a journey! Happy queer teens dating in high school and having realistic dating feelings! This is new, and neat. Less thrilling: you've got a whole group of (presumably) extremely smart, politicized trans Harvard students and not one of them says, hey, dude, you know the whole pronoun thing? U [...]

    Hahahahaha I am SO glad to be finished with this book. I loved Talley's first book. Lies We Tell Ourselves had a few issues in terms of race representation, but I was able to get past most of those and focus on the story and be swept up in it and then get too emotionally involved and have a mini breakdown. It was fine. I was fine with it. But What We Left Behind rubbed me the wrong way the entire time I read it. I am cisgender and have always identified that way, so I cannot entirely speak for h [...]

    ***This review has also been posted on The Social PotatoI don't really read New Adult. It's not because I have something against New Adult, I mean I've read and loved several New Adult novels, my problem is that I never feel like I am being represented in New Adult. I go to college and here is a truth that people won't tell you: college is all about being angsty. The angst doesn't magically disappear once you get into college. You aren't magically transformed into an adult. There is angst, lots [...]

    This review was originally posted on Books of AmberLies We Tell Ourselves was one of my favourite books of the year last year, and when I found out that Talley's next book would be about a girl who is a lesbian and a character who identifies as genderqueer, I was incredibly excited. Unfortunately, I was more than a little let down by What We Left Behind, and the reason for that lies with the character of Toni.There are two main characters, Toni and Gretchen, but What We Left Behind focusses m [...]

    Although it was super fun to read about queer characters, and for the main focus to be discovering your identity and romance, I thought that the characters got way too bogged down with labels and putting themselves into a specific box, when there are no boxes! I appreciated reading about the struggle of finding something you identify with, but maybe there's such a thing as being too self-aware, and it might be best to just let yourself be yourself without trying to justify it to the universe.

    A heart-breaking but important story of first love and self-discovery from one of my favourite new young adult authors. What We Left Behind follows perfect couple Toni and Gretchen as they attempt a long-distance relationship during their first year of college. But as Toni, who identifies as genderqueer, begins to consider transitioning from female to male, the cracks in their relationship begin to grow.What We Left Behind is a difficult book to read and enjoy, because it’s not a happy book. I [...]

    What We Left Behind by Robin Talley1 starToni and Gretchen are a couple like no other. They don’t fight or have conflicts. Everything is perfect. Then things start to change drastically. Toni and Gretchen are in different states for their first year of college. Gretchen and Toni don’t want to be another statistic of couples not working on for long distance. Toni identifies as genderqueer and prefers not to use pronouns to define gender. Gretchen doesn’t really understand Toni’s GQ status [...]

    This is going behind a spoiler cut because I'm going to be extremely opinionated. You have been warned.(view spoiler)[NB: I use 'they' for Toni more than any other gendered pronouns, purely because Toni doesn't start to identify as a male with male pronouns until the end of the book, and all of this stuff I'm talking about is before that part happens.This book was really well written. Like really well. For the most part.This is the first novel from this author that I have read, and yes, it is ex [...]

    Read this review and more on my blog!I received an eARC of What We Left Behind from NetGalley in exchange for an honest review - thanks to MIRAInk and NetGalley for letting me read this book early!Check out my review of Robin Talley's debut, Lies We Tell Ourselves, here.Last month I read Robin Talley's debut novel, Lies We Tell Ourselves, and with her third novel, As I Descended, being one of my most anticipated reads of 2016, I think it's safe to say that Talley is an author I've been keeping m [...]

    I am currently reading "Lies We Tell Ourselves". Every time someone asks what I am reading, I quickly ramble all the beautiful points about it, and mention What We Left Behind's upcoming release. Friend: Hey, what are you-Me: LESBIANS INTEGRATION INTERRACIAL BEAUTIFUL WRITING GENDER QUEER CHARACTERS COMING SOON THE WORLD IS SUCH A GREAT PLACEUpdate 2015-06-21NEW COVER ART! IT LOOKS SO BEAUTIFUL.

    I think I understand why people are so upset by this book, but in my opinion that's because they're misunderstanding T. (view spoiler)[(As a note: this is all coming from the point of view of someone who identifies outside of the gender binary. Also I'm referring to Tony as Tony and with male pronouns as per his decision at the end of the novel.) I've seen a lot of people talking about how the book portrays being genderqueer as a transitional phase from being cis to being trans. I disagree with [...]

    With What We Left Behind, I’ve finally finished/DNFed every single book I picked up during BEA week last year. It only took a year. But hey, it’s still an accomplishment. What We Left Behind was one of the books I was most excited to acquire but then I accidentally ended up shuffling it to the bottom of the stack. Then, color me surprised to discover when I went to mark this currently reading on GR and I saw that the reviews were terrible. Well, I really liked this one, but I think it’s im [...]

    2.5???? I have a problem with a good chunk of the characters in this book AND a lot of what happens. (Carroll's character is a straight-up asshole and nothing he does is okay.) But I do think this topic is important, especially for YA - so I'm definitely glad I read it.

    What We Left Behind is a stunning novel that highly features sexuality diversity within a light, sweet and fun atmosphere, while tackling the issues that come with discovering who you are and who means the most to you.Robin Talley has created a wonderful novel that literally screams sexual diversity. Presenting to the reader two main characters who are still in the process of not just discovering who they are, but also their own sexuality, we get a glimpse into the lives of many who are coming t [...]

    What We Left Behind is an emotional young adult contemporary romance that deals with a transgender/genderqueer couple, Toni and Gretchen, and how their relationship struggles during their first year apart at college. Toni and Gretchen have been together for what seems like forever and they're still hopelessly in love, even after all these years. It's almost a picture perfect relationship - until they have to go their separate ways for college. Toni finds a group of transgender students that give [...]

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